Nowadays, with the popularization of childbirth knowledge, many expectant mothers are psychologically prepared for childbirth pain, but in reality, in addition to the pain in the process of production, mothers will have some other feelings.
some time ago, my best friend gave birth to a baby. I went to see her. She looks good after delivery. It seems that she is recovering well. When I asked her how she felt about having a baby, my best friend said something that surprised me.
according to my best friend, I always heard that it was very painful to have a baby, which scared me a lot. However, after experiencing it personally, I found that the process of having a baby was not painful, and there were several moments that made me feel very comfortable, even “cool”.
I heard a mother describe the moment when she gave birth to a baby like this: it was like the “thousand year old stool” was discharged. With the amniotic fluid and the baby “Hula” being delivered at the same time, the stomach was empty, and the pain of uterine contraction disappeared. That feeling was just “relieved”. It was so cool.
physiologically speaking, after the uterine orifice is fully opened, the parturient does have a downward feeling of defecation, which will make the parturient subconsciously exert herself, and then deliver the fetus.
the reason why parturients feel this way is that the fetal head oppresses the cervix and anus. At this time, doctors often don’t let the parturients exert too much force to prevent the excessive force from leading to the laceration of the birth canal.
for the cesarean section, naturally, they can’t feel the “cool” at the moment of delivery, but in the process of postpartum recovery, they will also experience a “cool feeling”, that is, the process of “exhaust”.
after cesarean section, parturients are not allowed to eat. They are only allowed to eat after exhausting. This is because exhaust is a sign of successful operation. During the operation, anesthetics will affect the peristalsis of the stomach, and exhaust is also a manifestation of normal gastrointestinal function.
in the postpartum period, many pregnant women are exhausted and hungry, but even if they are hungry, they can’t eat. They have to wait until the body exhausts, so this process is very painful.
after the moment of exhausting, the puerpera will feel that they are finally liberated and can eat. Although it’s a little embarrassing when exhausting, they feel that it’s nothing compared with starvation.
after that, under the arrangement of all kinds of milk soup, the milk finally got through. At the moment of milk supply, Baoma felt much more comfortable, and her children also had breast milk to feed.
after childbirth, especially after natural childbirth, due to the lack of some weight in the body, the puerpera will have a feeling of “light floating”. Even when they walk, they will feel that their center of gravity is unstable and their feet are not solid.
this is because the whole pregnancy, the body has been used to the long-term “weight-bearing” feeling, once the baby is born, the body reduces the burden, naturally there will be a kind of “light floating” feeling.
during pregnancy, during the development of the fetus, the uterus will be forced to compress the surrounding organs, especially after the late pregnancy, the expectant mother will always feel chest tightness and poor breathing.
although the whole process of pregnancy and childbirth is hard, the moment the mother sees the baby, her heart is still full of happiness. The maternal instinct will forget all the pain, and the happiness will be born leisurely.
it seems that the whole process of giving birth to a baby is painful, but after a lot of hard work, the puerpera will finally experience the “pleasant feeling” of having a good baby. Focus