Pregnant mothers record the “unloading” process: in addition to pain, there are also these skills available

Recently, in the circle of friends, I saw a pregnant mother recording her natural childbirth process in words, which made me shiver every word. A woman’s birth is becoming more and more popular. First, she took a bath, and then called her husband to take her bag to the hospital. The doctor said “no contractions, labor is not so fast”, I am ready to go home, after all, the hospital is not comfortable. But my family was not at ease, so I had to be hospitalized just in case, so I stayed for four days. < / P > < p > in these four days, every second half of the night, the stomach began to have irregular pains, from once every half an hour to once every ten minutes. But the nurse said it had to wait until every five minutes. < / P > < p > on the morning of the 29th, I was used to the feeling of whether I wanted to live or not. After half a steamed bun, I couldn’t eat it. After a while, I told the nurse: I want to play stinky. The nurse checked for me, “it’s four centimeters open, so I can enter the waiting room.” Nurse: I have not finished eating for an hour. < / P > < p > Yes, you didn’t hear me wrong. You went in. It’s not consistent with the picture pushed by the cart in the TV series. When I got to the waiting room, the doctor said that the family members could not go in, so only a nurse who was half a head shorter than me supported me and slowly walked into the waiting room and climbed onto the operating bed. It was one o’clock in the afternoon. < / P > < p > I read a lot of natural birth diaries before, and I knew that I couldn’t use too much force at first. I seriously followed the doctor’s instructions. I was going to give birth quietly and skillfully. < / P > < p > but at this time, another puerpera was pushed in the delivery room, crying and crying, and my rhythm was disrupted by her, so I started to scream. < / P > < p > as a result, don’t be born, I’m still confused here. The doctor said, “it’s a second child. Your first child is not so fast.” After shouting and shouting just now, I was close to collapse. The doctor didn’t even want to put chocolate in my mouth. The effect was not good. He gave me another injection. I don’t know what it was. Anyway, I had strength in an instant. < / P > < p > after a while, the doctor came up and said: hold on, I see the hair. All of a sudden, a warm current came out, and his stomach was like a frustrated ball. The doctor grabbed the baby and asked, “look, boys and girls.” I said, “girl.” The doctor grabbed the baby, put it on the scale and said, “3350g, born at 3:40.” < / P > < p > the nurse held her to me, and I looked at the little angel, feeling strange and kind. After two hours in the delivery room, they were pushed out by nurses. < / P > < p > on the Internet, there are many ways to teach pregnant women how to correctly regulate their breathing so as to better assist in production, which has proved to be very effective. At first, I used Lamaze breathing method, and then I was disturbed by the lying in women nearby. At that time, I spent a lot of energy on shouting and shouting, and it was ineffective. Therefore, in the production process to maintain a stable breathing and good attitude is very important and effective. < / P > < p > only Baoma who ate these two things when giving birth knows the magic power of these two things. When you have no physical strength, these two things come into your stomach. It’s just like opening the hook. You have strength all over again. There is a tip, because I was in a hurry to enter the delivery room, and my mother-in-law had no time to cool the longan brown sugar water, so she put it directly into the thermos. During the production process, the mother drank with a straw. It can be imagined how hot it was at that time. Finally did not drink brown sugar water, only ate chocolate, even nurses feel sorry: “originally drink longan brown sugar water is the best.” After that, the chocolate didn’t give me enough strength, so the nurse had to give me an injection. < / P > < p > some hospitals can let their families accompany them into the waiting room, but pregnant mothers need to be prepared to enter the waiting room by themselves, which requires them to have strong ideas. When you feel that your half body is about to tear open, you still have to bite your teeth and keep going step by step, because the pain you feel is like: “it’s still early, five fingers are not open, so you have to move more.” And this pain can’t be solved by others. At that time, the situation was that you could only live, and you didn’t even have the right not to live, so you had to persist in the pain. < / P > < p > don’t expect your baby’s abdomen to flatten out after you have a baby. The fact is, after you have a baby, you will wonder if there is another one in your stomach. That belly is like a frustrated ball, drooping on your abdomen, it’s really ugly. Of course, it also includes pulling the stink on the operating table, a group of people staring at you with a smile on their face when feeding, and you can fall asleep when your friends come to see you < / P > < p > many young mothers are young and strong, and they are always unwilling to have a good confinement. It is clear that the old people want to lie in bed more, but their mothers have to do it for breast-feeding, and feed for half an hour. The waist is cold and damaged. At first, maybe I didn’t feel much, but after a long time, I must have wilted like a “plague chicken”. Also, I seldom use my eyes when I am in confinement. If I feel bored, I listen to it. During my confinement, I have heard the whole dream of Red Mansions. Short sighted treasure mother take advantage of this period of time to raise a good, vision will really get better. < / P > < p > it’s really important for a child to drink breast milk for the first time, but it’s not the main thing. If you haven’t opened the milk, you can rest assured to let the child drink breast milk first. Breast milk is not urgent. I personally think it has a lot to do with Baoma’s mentality. Otherwise, when you put all your attention on breast milk, drink pig’s foot soup, fish soup, go to a milkman to open milk, massage yourself, etc., you will still have no milk, which will only make your heart collapse, a vicious circle, and even more no milk. < / P > < p > so Baoma has to tell herself: it’s best to let her children drink their own breast milk. If not, it doesn’t matter. It’s a big deal to spend more money to buy milk powder for her children. When the mood gets better, there will be more breast milk. To sum up, the key points of giving birth are: self gritting, external positive assistance, good attitude before delivery and happy after delivery. Small habits of pregnancy not only affect the health of pregnant mother, but also delay the development of the fetus, don’t ignore