The pregnant mother gave birth to two babies, and the family was in joy, but the doctor said they were not twins

At the moment of the birth of a new life, I believe every parent will thank God for giving such a beautiful gift, so that his life can be extended. < / P > < p > but if two babies come to the world at the same time, it will undoubtedly win the “love” of God for parents, and add a new surprise on the festive day. But the two babies who come at the same time are not necessarily twins. < p > < p > Chen Jing and her husband have been married for more than three years, and they have no plans to have children because they are fighting for their careers. With the stability of their work and the urging of their families, they finally put the baby on the agenda. < / P > < p > and Chen Jing’s stomach is also “very competitive”, and she was soon pregnant, and the doctor told her that there are two babies in her stomach, which is undoubtedly a gift for the couple. < / P > < p > pregnant in October makes Chen Jing feel tired. Finally, when the child comes, she is reluctant to give up. However, the thought of seeing the child soon makes her feel relieved. < / P > < p > on that day, the two babies came to the world in the expectation of everyone. When the whole family was immersed in joy and congratulated that they had twins, the doctor said: they are not twins. < / P > < p > at this time, the atmosphere in the hospital suddenly solidified, and Bao’s parents asked blankly: “having two children, not twins, is there a child of someone else?” < / P > < p > the doctor explained: Chen Jing’s condition is called “heavy pregnancy” in medicine, which means that Baoma is pregnant twice in a very short period of time. < / P > < p > but heavy pregnancy is different. It means that Baoma gets pregnant again in a short period of time on the basis of being pregnant. Therefore, in order to distinguish the two situations, there are “heavy pregnancy” and “twins”. < / P > < p > although it is a happy event for a pregnant mother to give birth to two children at the same time, it also avoids the trouble of having a second child later, doctors believe that it is best for women to avoid the occurrence of “heavy pregnancy”, because it will bring potential life danger to Baoma and the child, so pregnancy examination is indispensable. < / P > < p > it’s hard to be a parent, harder to be a good parent, and more difficult to be a good parent of two children. Therefore, a family with two children can better reflect the educational ability of parents. < / P > < p > no matter two children are born at the same time or one after another, parents should not give a child privileges, and don’t let a child feel that he has special treatment just because he behaves well. What parents should do is a bowl of water. < / P > < p > you may not believe that the competition between children is often picked up by parents. For example, if one child makes a mistake, the parents will strike it and praise the other child. This leads to the two babies’ sense of competition is greater than that of family, and it is difficult for them to coexist peacefully when they grow up. < / P > < p > what parents should do is to let the two children form an alliance. They can support each other and cooperate to complete the task. After completing the task, parents should give fair praise and reward to the two children and let them cheer each other. < / P > < p > generally speaking, two children have different personalities. Therefore, parents should pay more attention to introverted children and give them more encouragement, so as to stimulate their self-confidence and make them feel the same love. < / P > < p > in terms of children’s hobbies, parents should “teach students in accordance with their aptitude”, let the two children choose the project they like and stick to it, but in this process, don’t compare and compete, just do it with their own love. < / P > < p > in the era of comprehensive second child, the level of parents’ education has become the core standard of children’s growth. If the education is good, the children will grow up together; if the education is not good, they are likely to “go their separate ways” when they grow up. Privacy Policy