What’s the current situation of the 67 year old woman with three births? Happy ending, may let you down

The reason why the four words of “elderly puerpera” are frequently mentioned in our life is that many young people always want to put the matter behind them. < / P > < p > I want to wait until I have a successful career and a new idea, but when everything is available, my physical condition may not be available. < / P > < p > therefore, the elderly puerpera is a common group in the society and is often criticized. However, it is not surprising that only the elderly puerpera. A previous news has refreshed our new understanding of the elderly puerpera. < / P > < p > aunt Tian, a citizen of Shandong Province, gave birth to her third child at the age of 67. The birth of this child has a huge impact on her. < / P > < p > first of all, the greater impact of 67 years old is that people do not understand the behavior of having children at such an age. < / P > < p > after hearing this interview, netizens expressed surprise and envy one after another. After all, it’s a miracle to have a third child at the age of 67. < / P > < p > it is understood that Aunt Tian was still very weak at the time when she gave birth to the baby, and she failed to get the understanding of her family, and she fell out with her family, which made the two old people very embarrassed. < p > < p > but fortunately, the baby was born healthy and smoothly, and the relationship between her daughter and her gradually eased up. Now the family is living happily, and the ending is satisfactory. < / P > < p > now aunt Tian’s biggest wish is to see her child grow up healthily and happily. In addition, she doesn’t want to be disturbed by the outside world, because they just want to have a child, but they make a lot of noise, which adds a lot of trouble to life. < / P > < p > as for Aunt Tian, later relevant experts came forward and said: there are not many such lucky people, so don’t take chances. If we treat this kind of fluke as a normal event, no one can afford the final result. < / P > < p > in other words, although today’s society is very friendly to women, it is not friendly to elderly women. This unfriendliness does not come from other people in the society, but from the pressure of the elderly women themselves. < / P > < p > family members have the closest relationship with themselves. However, if the family does not understand the issue of having children, it will be more difficult than going to heaven. < / P > < p > because after giving birth to a child, not only do you have to face many problems, but more importantly, the child should get along with his family. If the children are not recognized by their families, they will be subject to many restrictions in the future. Therefore, this kind of gossip and incomprehension from the family and the surrounding environment is a major reason why the elderly women dare not have children. < / P > < p > the most important thing for elderly women to have children is that they have no economic security. Why? When a person is older, people’s labor level will naturally decline. If there is no fixed job, then after giving birth to a child, they will only be able to eat nothing, and they will not be able to give the child a better education or even a better life. < / P > < p > therefore, this kind of economic pressure often makes the elderly women face a greater crisis. They know that they can not go out to work in a short time after giving birth to their children, and this kind of double economic pressure brings a very serious psychological burden to the elderly women. < / P > < p > it was not easy to give birth to the child, but there was a problem in educating him. Because there is a big gap between the age of the elderly puerpera and the age of their children, and some elderly puerpera may not keep pace with the times because of their age, so there will be a generation gap and contradiction with their children. < / P > < p > when they grow up, they will find that their mothers always have a certain age gap compared with others, even less than themselves. Therefore, this kind of contradiction in education also makes elderly mothers very painful in life. < / P > < p > in our life, although many elderly mothers are facing so much pressure, there are still some people who will choose to give birth to their own children at a higher age, but we must know that the older the age is, the higher the risk factor of giving birth will be. < / P > < p > because people’s physical function has a certain age limit, especially between 25-30 years old is the best age stage, at this time, the body development is the most complete and healthy. < / P > < p > If a child is born in this period, the health of the fetus will be guaranteed, at least in the embryonic environment, which can provide a relatively safe breeding environment. < / P > < p > but after 35 years old, all aspects of their body function will start to decline, so at this time, the possibility of fetal problems will be greater, if the elderly women insist on giving birth to children, it is also a kind of irresponsible expression for the children. < / P > < p > the elderly puerpera is a specific group, and they will face more risks and pressure when giving birth. If they don’t adjust their mentality well, they may face more problems. < / P > < p > and postpartum depression is a symptom of many puerpera. If the puerpera’s mentality is not well adjusted, they will fall into an infinite dead circle. Therefore, these health and psychological problems are all scars that can never be erased from the body of the elderly puerpera. < / P > < p > although it’s gratifying to have a baby at an advanced age, we have to consider many practical problems after giving birth, especially when there is a gap between children and themselves. Who should control their future? < / P > < p > in fact, a stage that children have to go through when they are young is their parents’ education for themselves. If the elderly mothers give birth, their children will be deprived of company for many years. Therefore, in this case, children’s growth and education will become the biggest problem. It is cruel for children to only let them grow up alone. 08/16/2020