“Have a second child as soon as possible” 40 year old Baoma sends out a circle of friends late at night, uncovering the scars of countless second child families

Speaking of having a second child, today’s phenomenon is that the Post-70s are more active, the post-80s are hesitating, and the post-90s are very Buddhist. Therefore, most of the families with two children are about 10 years old. Er Bao has just been born. Bao’s mother is old and her family is in a mess.

late last night, sister Chen, a former colleague, sent a circle of friends to advise everyone to “have a second child as soon as possible.”. Elder sister Chen is 40 years old. She has just given birth to her second child this year. She is really a very old woman. The reason why we advise you to have a second child early is that she is old enough to have a second child. She has experienced pregnancy induced hypertension, gestational diabetes mellitus and postpartum hemorrhage. It can be said that in order to have a second child, she has really gone through hell.

Moreover, because it’s too late to have a second child, her in laws and parents are too old to help with the baby. So she just quit her job and took her baby with her. Now she is taking care of two children by herself, and her family’s economic level is also plummeting, so she finds life hard. If we had a second child a few years earlier, it would not be this situation.

“it’s better to have a second child as soon as possible.” Baoma, 40, sends out a circle of friends late at night, uncovering the scars of countless second child families. Therefore, families planning to have a second child must make the following preparations in advance:

about having a second child, many netizens tease that those who have no money can’t afford it, and those who have money can have it at will. Because if you have money, you don’t have to worry about the pressure of raising children. The two children can cope with their food, drink and sleep. If they can’t, they can also hire a nanny. The most important thing is that money can provide better education for two children, so that children grow up more promising.

the reason why many families with two children feel great pressure is that they gave birth to two children when the conditions are not mature. It turns out that the second child costs more money than the first child. Eating, drinking and education of the two children are very expensive. When they have no time to deal with it, the couple will naturally regret having a second child, and they will also feel unhappy because of having a second child. Therefore, if you want to have a second child, saving more money is king.

like sister Chen, who was 40 years old at the beginning, the old people in her family were too old to help her with her baby. She had to resign and take care of her baby herself. A person with two children, not only to coach the boss to do homework, but also to take care of the second shit fart, really can’t do it.

therefore, a family planning to have a second child must consider the right person to take care of the baby and be prepared to take care of the baby. For example, if there is an old man to help take care of the baby, you can be confident and bold to give birth, so that the work will not be affected after giving birth, and the family’s economic situation will not be affected too much. At the same time, we should be prepared to take care of our children without help. When we take care of our children alone, we should not be too oppressive. Otherwise, not only their own bad mood, is not conducive to the healthy growth of children and family harmony.

in addition, sister Chen gave birth to a second child at the age of 40. She accounted for almost all the complications of the elderly women. As a result, she gave birth to a second child only after she died. Therefore, she is not in good health now, so she advised the mothers around her to “have a second child as soon as possible”.

indeed, the best childbearing age for women is between 23 and 30 years old, when they are young and in the best physical condition, it is more favorable to have children. The older you are, the worse your physical condition will be, the lower your fertility will be, the more you suffer from pregnancy and childbirth, and the worse your health will be after childbirth. Of course, the male age is too old, “Little Tadpole” poor quality, also easy to hurt his wife hurt fetus. Therefore, when planning to have a second child, the couple should pay attention to their age and health and try to have a second child as early as possible. Pets