“I don’t expect you to support me when I’m old.” the 50 year old mother and daughter were angry to have a second child, and they were disappointed in the end

After the country liberalizes the two-child policy, we will find that the real response to the two-child policy is those elderly women who are about 40 years old. Of course, there are some reasons for this. < / P > < p > Aunt Wang is 50 years old, and her daughter has just graduated from university. Aunt Wang has always wanted her daughter to stay with her, and asked people to find relationships everywhere, so that she could find a good job for her daughter. < / P > < p > at first, her daughter didn’t take it seriously. She wanted to comfort Aunt Wang in a joking way, saying that if she really wanted her, she could come and live together, and she would help her to provide for the aged, so that Aunt Wang could rest assured. < / P > < p > she insisted on having a second child, and she was really pregnant soon. During the whole pregnancy, Aunt Wang’s pregnancy reaction was very strong, and she almost had dystocia when giving birth, but fortunately everything was safe in the end. < / P > < p > although the decision on whether to have a second child is ultimately in the hands of the mother, if the consent of the eldest child can be obtained, then the family relationship will be better handled. < / P > < p > the elderly puerpera are generally over 35 years old, and many choose to have a second child in their 40s, which means that it is difficult for them to make a new breakthrough in their career. < / P > < p > but the arrival of the second child will make the family’s economic pressure suddenly increase. If there is not enough economic income, it is recommended not to rashly give birth to the second child, otherwise it will not only reduce the quality of life of the family, but also be irresponsible to the children. < / P > < p > it’s hard to take care of children. Children are more energetic than we can imagine, so if parents feel obviously inadequate in physical strength. < / P > < p > every child is different, and will have its own advantages and disadvantages. Parents should learn to objectively look at the advantages and disadvantages of their children, rather than deliberately magnifying their disadvantages, which will only lead to parents’ bias towards one of them. < / P > < p > this kind of unfair treatment, in fact, is unfavorable to both children. The so-called favored child is confident and fearless, and it is easy for the child to form a selfish and domineering personality, while the child who is not loved will become introverted and inferior. < / P > < p > in fact, this is very unfair to the eldest child. When the parents forcibly transfer the responsibility of taking care of the second child to the eldest child, the eldest child will naturally feel great pressure, which will only make them dissatisfied with the second child. < / P > < p > parents should know that it’s their own decision to have a second child, so don’t let the eldest bear the pressure together at any time. After all, the eldest is also a child, and parents should also pay attention to the eldest’s mood, so as to make brotherhood better. Luanban