In 76, Baoma was given birth to a second child. What is the latest age of having a second child? Be careful when you are over this age

“I’m 76 years old and my wife is one year older than me. There is a boy in my family. Now he is 18 years old. He is a junior in senior high school. He studies very well. He doesn’t have to worry at home. Since the opening of the two child policy, the family has been urging for a second child, and the son has urged him to have a younger brother and younger sister. Originally I didn’t plan to have a second child, but now I’m urged by my family. I was idle at home, and my children only went home once a week after high school. I didn’t know what to do with a lot of time. If you want to have a baby, you can be younger. But they are afraid that they are too old to have children. The more they delay, the more anxious they are. ” < p > < p > a Baoma asked for help in the group. She was too old to have a second child. Almost all the other Baoma were in favor of her birth, saying that “take advantage of her to have a baby, and you won’t regret it if you have half of it.” It’s not as easy to say to have children at an advanced age. In theory, only women who do not have menopause and other reproductive disorders can have birth. However, considering from the physiological and psychological aspects, the best childbearing age for women is 22-29 years old, and the risk of childbirth will be greatly increased when they are over 30 years old. Once they are over 35 years old, they are old women. Therefore, it is better for women to have a second child within 35 years of age. If they are over 35 years old, they will face the following problems: < / P > < p > women have the best egg quality and high pregnancy rate during the period of 22-29. After 30 years of age, the egg quality is declining year by year, and the pregnancy rate is also greatly reduced. For example, Baoma, who wanted to have a second child at the beginning, has a very small chance of getting pregnant at this age. Even if it is an artificial test tube, it may not succeed. Many 30-year-old women in preparation for pregnancy on the road to go very hard, constantly go to the hospital to recuperate, very hard. < p > < p > after 35 years of age, the older the pregnant woman is, the higher the risk of miscarriage, premature birth and fetal malformation. This is because the quality of oocytes in elderly women is declining, and they are more likely to be affected by environmental factors. The incidence rate of 25~29 is 1/5000, 30~34 is 1/900, 35~39 is 1/250, and 1/4 is over 40 years old. Therefore, it is not recommended that women become pregnant too late, preferably before the age of 35. < / P > < p > older pregnant women over 35 years old will have more severe pregnancy reaction and more prone to pregnancy complications, such as gestational hypertension and gestational diabetes mellitus. Therefore, the whole pregnancy should be strictly on time and pay attention to the body dynamics; the rate of dystocia during delivery is also very high, and the elderly maternal doctors generally recommend cesarean section. < p > < p > from the physical point of view, it is not recommended that women get pregnant too late. When they are young, they have good physical fitness and good egg quality, which is helpful to the health of the baby and their own postpartum physical recovery. If late marriage and late childbirth are caused by academic and career reasons, it is not recommended to be pregnant too late. < / P > < p > in addition to the above reasons, if you are pregnant too late, you have to face the problem of not having enough energy to take care of your baby. After all, it’s not a young person. The physical strength is not good, and the children are lively and active. You don’t have much energy to play with the children. This will be a pity. < / P > < p > and when having a second child, you should also consider the feelings of the eldest child. Some of them are teenagers, and their parents decide to have a second child, which leads to their inner resistance. Because the parents are older, their younger brothers and sisters have to rely on their own help, which increases their burden. Yunyun is a senior nursery teacher, focusing on early childhood education, child care, baby psychological development, parent-child growth and other fields. From preparation to pregnancy, to the safe landing of your baby, yunyun will accompany you and your baby to grow up together. Home