Is it maternal love or selfish? “Less than rice” pocket girl insists on giving birth to a baby, and the whole family suffers after the baby is born

Every woman has the right to be a mother, but for some people, this seems to belong to their own power can not be used normally. In many cases, < / P > < p > at that time, in an interview program, we invited a couple. The man’s face is not high, and he seems to have been hurt, but the woman’s face can be beaten, which can be said to be very beautiful. However, what attracts more attention is not her beauty, but her height. < / P > < p > the girl, who is “short of meters” in height and looks like a doll, is actually an adult and a mother. It’s just that she’s suffering from dwarfism. < / P > < p > however, the girl is still happy. She has a husband who loves her very much and her family is very kind to her. Because of this, she still stubbornly wants to have a child and a half for her husband on the premise that she knows she is not suitable for pregnancy. < / P > < p > at the same time, she also wants to use her motherhood power. Pregnancy preparation and pregnancy are all natural, but during the prenatal examination, the doctor poured a basin of cold water on them. < / P > < p > various examination results show that the child may have health problems. Affected by the mother’s “dwarfism”, the child may have the problem of “whole body cartilage development is not perfect”. < / P > < p > to say the least, even if the child is lucky, but for the height of “less than meters” pocket girls, pregnancy and childbirth are at great risk. Her petite body could not bear the pressure of pregnancy and childbirth. < / P > < p > after that, the wife finally gave birth to her son, and finally the mother and son were safe. But before the whole family could wake up from the joy of new life, problems appeared one after another. < / P > < p > although the whole family has taken good care of the child, there are still many problems. The child has been fractured more than ten times since birth. These conditions are very painful for the whole family. < / P > < p > the examination results showed that the child was diagnosed with “osteogenesis imperfecta”, which is what we often call “porcelain doll” brittle bone disease. This disease is not only easy to cause all kinds of fractures, but also may cause deafness, vision loss and other health problems. < / P > < p > for example, this “short of rice” wife knows that the risk of pregnancy is great, but she also knows that if she doesn’t have a baby this time, her chances in the future will be even more slim. < / P > < p > therefore, as a wife with abnormal health, she will not miss the opportunity to be a mother. Anyway, she wanted the child from the bottom of her heart and wanted to be a mother. < / P > < p > but the problem is that if we just understand the risk of having a baby and do not find out the abnormality of the child, then taking this risk has certain significance. After the prenatal examination, the doctor clearly told us that “it is not recommended to have a baby”, and the wife is still so stubborn, which is worth discussing. < / P > < p > as for whether this is the embodiment of maternal love or whether it is to satisfy the “selfish interests” of becoming a mother and give birth to a child regardless of the child’s future, I think there will be different answers in the eyes of different people, or in the eyes of some people, this kind of thing should not be thought rationally. < / P > < p > in any case, the future of a child as a parent always needs to be considered, but just as the “short rice” mother said, since the child exists, he has the right to be born and live. < / P > < p > therefore, as bystanders, we may not have a say. No matter how you choose, it’s the parents’ right. As a result, they are responsible for both good and bad. It’s hard to say whether this is maternal love or selfish. < / P > < p > but anyway, similar things are ringing the alarm bell for us to understand that mother is not so easy to be. On the issue of pregnancy and childbirth, there are many situations that need to be carefully considered by expectant mothers. For example, there are four. < / P > < p > husband and wife have conditions similar to dwarfism, epilepsy, congenital heart disease, cleft lip and palate, which are genetic problems. In this case, the wife should be cautious about pregnancy. < / P > < p > women over the age of 35 are considered to be elderly mothers, while those over the age of 40 or even higher are not suitable for pregnancy and childbirth. Not only the health of the fetus can not be guaranteed, but also the health of Baoma herself can not be guaranteed. < / P > < p > there are still some women who think that their living habits are not good for various reasons, such as staying up late, not exercising much, smoking, drinking and so on. Such women are also not suitable for pregnancy. If you want to prepare for pregnancy, at least adjust your living habits to be normal for more than half a year and try again. < / P > < p > some women who are not suitable for pregnancy are related to their environment, such as unsafe working environment, noise, high temperature or abnormal smell, or poor living environment, surrounding air pollution, noise pollution, etc. < / P > < p > in addition to the above several cases that are not suitable for pregnancy, even ordinary couples who are suitable for pregnancy should do a good pregnancy test before pregnancy, so as to ensure the health of the fetus after pregnancy. Focus