It’s the first time to be pregnant and have children. Don’t force your prejudice on Baoma, which is boring

A mother was interviewed on the Internet. During the interview, she was painless. During the whole process of giving birth, she didn’t feel too much pain. Moreover, this great mother was the first child. Many people began to comment that this mother was a show. She was not a qualified mother. How could a natural birth be painless? How can the first child not hurt? Can painless childbirth really be good for children? In an instant, the mother suffered from cyber violence. < / P > < p > later, the doctor clarified that not all women would feel special pain in the process of giving birth to children. Some women’s vaginas were more elastic. At this time, they did not feel too much pain when giving birth to children. This is different from person to person, and not everyone is the same. < p > < p > for example, Baoma must be able to live independently during pregnancy. However, many women are particularly difficult to turn over when they are pregnant. Such prejudice will be unfair to them. For example, pregnant fathers will think that they are particularly pretentious. < / P > < p > there are also some people who think that they will get fat and become very fat and swollen when they are pregnant. In fact, some women’s body shape will not change too much in the process of pregnancy, except for the slightly protruding belly. Some people accuse them of not giving their children enough to lose weight because of prejudice. < / P > < p > there are too many such prejudices. Most of them directly hurt Baoma’s heart and easily lead to her depression. More often than not, there will be many keyboard warriors on the Internet, abusing these precious mothers without knowing it. In the process of pregnancy, many women are particularly sensitive. Therefore, these words will be invisible in their hearts. The enlarged language will specially stimulate their nerves, which will easily lead to the depression of these Baoma. Because of the prejudice caused by these non-existent facts, it is easier for Baoma to have suicidal thoughts. < / P > < p > in particular, some elderly people always think that they are very experienced and use their past experience to blame Baoma who is pregnant now. These so-called experience bias will lead to a lot of misunderstandings in this family, which is likely to make the family fragmented. Many Baoma choose to divorce because they encounter too many problems in the process of marriage and pregnancy In fact, such misunderstandings can be avoided completely, but because these people with broken mouth lead to the death of their marriage. < / P > < p > nowadays, the Internet is very developed, so people often publish their prejudice on the Internet through their own network platform, which will attract many people’s attention on the Internet. Most of these people don’t know the cause and effect of the matter, and they don’t know the truth of the matter. They just judge this matter from the copywriters of the publishers, It’s easy to let the Baoma fall into the public opinion, and the family will also fall into the public opinion. Such public opinion is likely to lead to the destruction of the whole family. < / P > < p > we will meet these precious mothers in our families and in our future life. We should treat them gently and let them live better in this world. < / P > < p > no mother doesn’t love her children, so they think more and care more than we do in the process of pregnancy. What we should do is to respect their ideas and their practices. In fact, most of the time, their practices are more scientific and effective than what we see, but we don’t see the middle process and misunderstand him We are just, so we should respect them first, and respect all their ideas. < p > < p > during the process of pregnancy, Baoma’s parents are very hard and not easy. They suffer a lot more than we think. It is the process of pregnancy that makes him lose a lot, so he pays a lot for the family. As a husband, as an old man in the family, or as a social person, we should understand that it is not easy for Baoma, a lot When they are not easy, not only we see, but also behind what we do not see, we can not help, can only do understanding. < / P > < p > they have encountered a lot of problems in the process of operation. At this time, we should not be an obstacle on their way. We should learn to understand them better, so that they can have a better mood to face the future life and face their upcoming children. If they can’t understand them, they will probably go down the road of depression, which will lead to the destruction of the whole family. < / P > < p > pregnant women are usually vulnerable in this period, so we should give them more care and love at this time, rather than blame. In this process, blame will only make their own plight more and more serious, which is not good for them. Therefore, when we care about and love them, we can make them feel that the world is beautiful To have a better mood to face the world, will not produce depression. < / P > < p > we don’t know the cause and effect of this incident. We don’t know what they want to express. We don’t know whether it’s really good or bad. We should not judge their thoughts and their behaviors at will, because many times our judgment is wrong. Maybe we do it with good intentions However, we didn’t expect to do something bad, so we should not do it at will. At least we should understand the cause and effect of a thing before discussing it. < / P > < p > many Baoma are suffering from the prejudice of others, which gradually drives them crazy. They go further and further along the road of madness. Sometimes their husbands and their families lead them to the road of death because of these biased opinions and misunderstandings. Many times, we are among the people who force them to die, so many times not Be partial to what you hear. After taking X-ray to discover pregnancy, can the child still want it? The doctor told you so