“Please be sure to protect me first”, the pregnant woman secretly gave the doctor a small note, the doctor was sad and speechless

In the past, many women died when they gave birth to children. On the one hand, the medical care was too backward to ensure the safety of the maternal life. On the other hand, when there was danger, the husband’s family chose to keep a child. < / P > < p > with the changes of the times, the risk coefficient of women having children has been greatly reduced. As long as the maternal and fetal health is good, there is generally no accident. However, it is a matter of courage to have children, and maternal fear is normal. < / P > < p > therefore, many pregnant women, when entering the delivery room, secretly or directly told the doctor that “if there is any danger, you must protect me first”. For this reason, the pregnant women also specially asked their mother’s family to come on the day of delivery, for fear that they might encounter an accident. < / P > < p > one morning, a girl was pushed into the delivery room and suddenly sat up. Then she secretly stuffed a note to the doctor, which said, “if there is an accident later, no matter what others say, protect me first.”. < / P > < p > when the doctor saw the contents of the note, she was sad and speechless. What was sad was what kind of life the puerpera was living in her mother-in-law’s house, which made her worry. What was speechless was the age. Some people believed that Baoda Baoxiao should listen to her husband. < / P > < p > in real life, many puerpera will secretly show their attitude to the doctor, but they don’t know that the puerpera’s self righteous self-help is ignorant to the doctor. < / P > < p > in movies and TV dramas, when a woman is in danger of childbirth, she will ask her family whether to keep the baby or not, while most of her husband and mother-in-law choose to keep the baby. < / P > < p > affected by these TV dramas, pregnant women will have the idea of whether to keep the big or the small during pregnancy. If they are afraid that their husband will choose to keep the small, they will make preparations in advance. < / P > < p > especially in childbirth, the maternal mood is too tense, the psychological burden is heavier, resulting in serious panic, which leads to the idea of unexpected encounter. < / P > < p > in life, a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really a lucky thing. Most of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law despise each other and maintain superficial peace. Many of them have already torn their faces. < / P > < p > once such a mother-in-law accompanies the delivery, it will make the puerpera panic, for fear that in case of an accident, the mother-in-law will choose to abandon herself. In fact, in the final analysis, the mother-in-law does not trust each other enough. < / P > < p > in the past, maternal childbirth always encountered unexpected, because the medical equipment is not developed, and the risk of childbirth is high, but now in this era, the risk coefficient of childbirth is not very big. < / P > < p > according to the law, the puerpera is a natural person, whether they can be saved or not is a medical accident, while the fetus is not a natural person in the legal sense, and whether the medical insurance is large or small. < / P > < p > when the puerpera is giving birth, if it is really unexpected, the doctor will first look at the situation of the puerpera. If the puerpera is sober, then they will ask the opinions of the puerpera. If the puerpera is not sober, then they will provide options for their families. < / P > < p > and this option is not to keep the big or the small. It is the doctor who makes two options according to the actual situation of the maternal and fetal, and the two options may be the difference between a big risk and a small risk. < / P > < p > but mainly around the maternal, not the fetus, in short, in childbirth, once the maternal and fetal accident, doctors will try their best to protect the big. < / P > < p > maternal really don’t worry about this problem, it’s better to take care of the fetus, so that they and the fetus become stronger, so that there will be no danger when giving birth. If the maternal is still worried, then when giving birth, let someone close to them accompany the birth. 08/16/2020