Where have all the “lost” fetuses gone? The doctor won’t say the specific results, but we need to know

Some people say that the birth of life is very magical. Every little life is a “little angel” who chooses his mother in the sky. They will wait in the sky for a long time, until they find their favorite mother, will be willing to come to the world. < / P > < p > however, not every little life is expected. Many of them come when their parents to be are ignorant, unprepared or have to give up childbearing. Therefore, their ending is not to quack to the ground, but to be “exiled” quietly. < / P > < p > a friend of mine, who has been in love with her boyfriend for four years, has never been married because her husband’s financial condition is not good and her parents do not agree to be together. They want to wait until they have enough money to buy a house before they get married. However, not long ago, she found out that she was accidentally pregnant, but their current conditions are not suitable for having children at all. And her boyfriend was not ready to be a father, so they discussed going to the hospital to “exile”. < / P > < p > but since the operation, my friend has always felt that he has lost something. No matter how to supplement nutrition and how to rest, he feels very weak. Moreover, at night, she has nightmares, always dreaming of a baby calling her mother and saying that she is cold. Therefore, friends are almost repenting day by day. They should not be pregnant carelessly, let alone not have this child. She also asked me how the hospital would deal with the aborted fetus. She wanted to know whether the fetus was properly handled, so that she could feel better. < / P > < p > in fact, many people don’t know about this problem, and doctors won’t take the initiative to talk about it. After all, since you choose to kill the fetus, it means you don’t want the child, and it doesn’t make sense to know the result. However, for some people who have to “lose” their fetus because of their own difficulties, they really want to know. Let’s talk about it. < / P > < p > when it comes to early abortion, there are two kinds: drug abortion and surgical abortion. Drug abortion is suitable for pregnancy within 49 days, and surgical abortion is suitable for more than 49 days but less than three months. In other words, if the operation “shed” the fetus, it is generally the fetus has been formed. For the formed fetus, the general hospital will treat it as medical waste and throw it away together with some other medical waste in the hospital. < / P > < p > usually, this is how the regular large hospitals deal with it. Moreover, the discarded medical waste is usually burned. Before incineration, professional medical disinfection will be carried out, and then special machines will be used for incineration. This kind of treatment is a good result for the fetus. After all, normal people will be cremated after death. To some extent, the fetus treated in this way has been treated as an adult. < / P > < p > just like my friends, many women have to have their fetuses aborted. For example: the economic conditions are not good, the physical condition is not suitable for raising the fetus, the fetus has malformation problems, the fetus stops, and so on. At this time, the fetus has to be “exiled”. < / P > < p > and the expectant mothers and their families who “lost” the fetus actually have expectations or guilt for the baby. Therefore, for the sake of psychological comfort and a decent “ceremony” for the fetus to leave, many people would like to deal with the “remains” of the fetus themselves. Therefore, after the operation, the doctor will give it to the family members according to the wishes of the patients and their families. < / P > < p > there are also some people who will choose to go to some small clinics to “lose” the fetus. In these small clinics, there is no regular way to deal with medical waste, and the people who do the operation have no special requirements on how to deal with the fetus. The small clinics will discard the “lost” fetus in the garbage. < / P > < p > this kind of treatment can be said to be very disrespectful to the fetus, but because the fetus at this time can not be really called “human”, many people who have miscarriage will not mind. Unless I feel particularly guilty, I will dream about this “child” once or twice in the middle of the night. < / P > < p > anyway, it’s a pity that the fetus is “exiled”. And for the abortion itself, in fact, the harm is also great. After all, it’s a piece of meat that falls from my body. Whether it’s medicine or surgery, it will cause some damage to my body. Some can cause infection, some gynecological diseases, and some even affect the future fertility. Therefore, the harm of spontaneous abortion, do not want children must take measures. < / P > < p > before, a friend who was a doctor told me that a 16-year-old girl had an unexpected pregnancy to have an abortion. At that time, she even said “my boyfriend told me that I would not be pregnant for the first time”, which made her speechless. Therefore, many young people lack the necessary physiological knowledge, which leads to so many unwanted pregnancies. Therefore, do not want to be pregnant, understand the necessary physiological knowledge is very important. < / P > < p > since you don’t plan to have children, you must be well prepared for contraception. Don’t be troublesome. After all, miscarriage is more troublesome and harmful. Therefore, whether it is the use of “umbrella”, take contraceptives, or Sheung Wan, women must know how to protect themselves. 21 days after delivery, the pregnant woman had a new baby, but the doctor did not find it was “twins”